Why I chose #FakeBoobs over #RealBoobs
Are you a swinger considering getting a boob job? People think a lot of swingers have breast implants and I’m here to help stop the taboo topic. As always let’s start with why I’ve written such an...
View ArticleFlirting with Non-Monogamous People
Sucking at Flirting (and other helpful avoidance tips) Flirting, kind of a requirement to finding a mate right? Normal dating is no different but now in the lifestyle we have to flirt and flirt and...
View ArticleTaking One For The Team
Do Swingers take one for the team? What if you don’t find a 4-way connection in the Swinging Lifestyle? How do you manage it? “We Never Take One for the Team” (Except for 60% of the time….) Welcome to...
View ArticleCoffee Chats with Mr and Mrs Teste
Tell us a bit about yourself; We are Ex-Catholic empty nesters. I know what you’re thinking. I (He) am a semi-retired engineer. She is a director of a medical office. I’m 59, and She’s 58. We’ve been...
View ArticleCoffee Chats with Secret Vixen
Tell us a bit about yourself; I like to think of myself as being a ‘normal’ woman; I’m in my early 30s, happily married, have kids, a menagerie of pets and am a professional, I just have a ‘hobby’ that...
View ArticleYesterday I was a Wanker…. reflections of Mr H
This article was written by Mr H from the Bed Hoppers Podcast, thank you for sharing your thoughts and inner most ramblings! We’ve been on this journey for a while now. I’m not sure we can call...
View ArticleCoffee Chats with Haylee’ndStu
Tell us a bit about yourself; Hi, we’re Haylee and Stu, and we live in sunny Western Australia. We’re both in our thirties, we’ve been together since 2002, married since 2005, and have a couple of...
View ArticleAre you coming out out? Post by Mr H
You’ve probably thought about it before, asked the question of yourself and possibly your spouse… maybe even discussed it on LS dates. No, it’s not the answer to life, the universe and everything....
View ArticlePride Stories – Love is Love
Pride month is a very important month celebrating LOVE each year and we wanted to do something a little bit different for 2019, we collected some stories from fellow podcasters, listeners and of course...
View ArticleLifestyle Community… What the F**k?!
What does the Lifestyle Community really mean? This is a term that we heard very early on in our journey, two words lifestyle and community joined together to create this idea that we are all part of a...
View ArticleSingle Men at Lifestyle Events
We recently interviewed a single male attending the epic lifestyle event Naughty in Nawlins in July 2019, curious about his background, his lifestyle involvement or getting an invite to a couples...
View ArticleSex Toy Review; Queen Bee by Hot Octopus
We’ve been intrigued by Hot Octopus toys for a long time, they are a UK based organisation and their marketing collateral definitely speaks to us. It looks new, energetic and fun… we’ve been wanting to...
View ArticleFirst Time at a Swingers Club
Curious what it’s like to visit a Swingers Club for the first time? Our Swinging Lifestyle Blog covers your first visit to a Swingers Club Kev and Jaye attend their first club…. We’d like to thank Kev...
View ArticleSmiths attend their first Lifestyle event!
Newbies attend their first big swingers lifestyle event in Vegas in 2019 and write about their first impressions, concerns and wins! Big thank you to Mr and Mrs Smith for helping us with this guest...
View ArticleNaughty in Nawlins 2019 – ChemPlusBio
Curious what people think of the USA’s largest Swingers Convention Naughty In Nawlins? A couple review their first time at Naughty In Nawlins Did you attend Naughty in Nawlins 2019? If not, we’ve...
View ArticleNaughty in Nawlins 2019 – Christian and Anna
Curious what people think of the USA’s largest Swingers Convention Naughty In Nawlins? A couple review their first time at Naughty In Nawlins Did you attend Naughty in Nawlins 2019? If not, we’ve...
View ArticleNaughty in Nawlins 2019 – Rose and Chris
Curious what people think of the USA’s largest Swingers Convention Naughty In Nawlins? A couple review their first time at Naughty In Nawlins Did you attend Naughty in Nawlins 2019? If not, we’ve...
View ArticleNaughty in Nawlins 2019 – K & L Couple
Curious what people think of the USA’s largest Swingers Convention Naughty In Nawlins? A couple review their first time at Naughty In Nawlins Did you attend Naughty in Nawlins 2019? If not, we’ve...
View ArticleReflecting on our first Naughty In ‘Nawlins By WhoKnows
Curious what people think of the USA’s largest Swingers Convention Naughty In Nawlins? A couple review their first time at Naughty In Nawlins Did you attend Naughty in Nawlins 2019? If not, we’ve...
View ArticleUnicorns and How to Hunt Them
We often see couples asking the same questions, ‘how can we find a unicorn’?! A lot of couples enter the lifestyle hoping for a FMF threesome with a single lady (it’s a great fantasy right!) and then...
View ArticleCommunication Gone Wrong
Swinging Lifestyle Communication, what happens when it goes wrong? It happens to the best of us and here’s when I had it wrong and how I tried to fix it Ever heard of the word Seppuku? What about...
View ArticleFinding Jeni; A lifestyle story
This is the story of JENI and we couldn’t be more humbled to share this with all of you. Reading through this I am feeling a mix of emotions, mostly, I’m empowered. Empowered by the fact that some may...
View ArticleNaked in NonMonogamy – Self Conscious
Thank you so much to Mrs K&A ATX for sharing your journey with us, this month our blogs and newsletter are all devoted to healthy mind, body and soul and we are so humbled that you’re sharing such...
View ArticleImproving your self confidence in the Lifestyle
HUGE thank you to Andrew for taking part of this months blog series about health, confident and lifestyle! It is super refreshing to hear so many vulnerable stories from amazing lifestyle couples. We...
View ArticleLove your partners curves!
Do you believe it when your partner says they ‘love your curves’? In this amazing story J shares how they have adapted their life into a more fitness and health focused one and how being in the...
View ArticleHealth journey with SweetTea and Whiskey
When Cate mentioned that health and fitness in the lifestyle was a blog topic, I wanted to find the time to weigh in (pun intended ). It is 3am and I’m lying in bed reflecting on our own journey this...
View ArticleSex Toys for Pussy Play
What’s in your Sex Toy Box? Sex toys for women – Where should I even begin! Female masturbation conversation has come a long way and undergone an amazing alternation in the past decade. Historically it...
View ArticleNaughty Christmas Stockings
It’s that time of the year when Christmas shopping comes around too quickly and you start to wonder if you have everything for the family, friends, neighbours, teachers, the florist and the dude you...
View ArticleAre you a HOTWIFE?
Are you a hotwife? This is a commonly used definition in the swinging lifestyle and I thought I’d take a minute to write about it and uncover if I am indeed a HOTWIFE. I wrote this article about...
View ArticleFirst time at Desire Resort Mexico – Guest blog by Alex and Izzy
Alex and Izzy share their first time at Desire Riviera Maya Resort with us, they were Desire newbies and wanted to share their experience visiting a Swingers Resort for the first time. Have you ever...
View ArticleSex Toy Review; Osci by Lovense Toys
You might have heard of the brand lovense before but it might not be on the tip of your swinger friends tongues as their recommended must have toy. Lovense was made famous by the adoration of camming...
View ArticleApproach swinging after COVID19 – Guest blog by WhoKnows
Curious how the Swinging Lifestyle is dealing with COVID and the shut down of Swingers Clubs? The current global pandemic has affected our lives and our lifestyle in all facets, whilst many of us don’t...
View ArticleHow are Swingers and Lifestylers dealing with ‘The New Normal’ of COVID19?
What will the future hold for swingers, events, dates, and the lifestyle in general is absolutely on the forefront of many people’s minds right now. It is being discussed on social media, blogs,...
View ArticleSex Toy Review; Ambi by Lovense Toys
Welcome to my Sex Toy Review of the Ambi by Lovense. Lovense ?has been making history with their vibrators since 2010, quickly producing some of the best long-distance app-controlled sex toys that...
View ArticleMisunderstood Times
Lets talk about the swinging lifestyle; it is as diverse as the people in it and there are many ways to approach it and the people within it. Mr H from the Bed Hoppers Podcast shares his thoughts in...
View ArticleFirst time at Young Swingers Week – Guest Blog
Every wondered what it’s like to visit a Swingers Resort? What about your first trip to Hedonism Swingers Resort Jamaica or even partying with Young Swingers Week? Thank you to our guest blogger today...
View ArticleStarting Out Swinging by Ninenday
We are Nitendays on Fabswingers and Instagram from a little country called Wales in the UK best known for our rugby and our singing….. Here is the story of how we got into the swinging lifestyle we...
View ArticleWhere should we host our Swingers Play Session?
We recently had a question from a new couple in the swinging lifestyle about to embark on their first threesome Male, Female, Male (MFM) experience. They asked us “Ours, His or Hotel?” They wanted to...
View ArticleHow I sold my used panties on the internet
Ever thought about selling your used panties on the internet? Curious how to actually sell your used panties? Read on to hear about my experience selling my used panties Yes, you read that title...
View ArticleOur first MFM threesome – Evolving in the swinging lifestyle while safely...
Curious about MFM threesome? Want to know more about how you can safely arrange a threesome in the swinging lifestyle or just want a little peak into a swinging lifestyle couple. Read on to learn about...
View ArticleSelling used panties Vol 2
Many of you read the first blog about selling my used panties online and sent through questions as well as words of support and I thought it was a good idea to write a 2nd blog. This is all about my...
View ArticleWhat is Cuckolding? Is it wrong?
Cuckolding – What is Cuckolding? What are the common misconceptions? Written by Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast; join our global diverse look into the swinging and hotwifing lifestyle. Let me...
View Article6 Expert Tips for Swingers Travelling with Sex Toys
Swingers often travel to new destinations to visit other swingers, attend events and swingers resorts… Getting ready for an upcoming trip is such an exciting moment but you’ll also need to take care of...
View ArticleSwinger Hotel Events; What are they really?
Hotel Parties: What are they Really? Hotel events and takeovers can be a great way to get away for a night or a few days, escape the realities of homelife and tie in some awesome travel all at the same...
View ArticleAftercare and the ‘Drop’ Post Swinging experience!
Have you ever had a lifestyle situation that you enjoyed and then woke the next day feeling a little blah? Have you ever experienced the post swinging drop or know to get ahead of the curve and arrange...
View ArticlePodcast-A-Palooza 2021 Review
Curious what happens at a Podcast-A-Palooza event? Read on to hear about our experiences attending Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami We are Honeyspoon from Canada and have been in the lifestyle nearly two...
View ArticleSwinging in Croatia – What’s it really like?!
Curious what swinging in Croatia is like? Or are you looking for swingers in Croatia? Perhaps you want to know what it’s like compared to your home town? We explore the past 6 months of swinging in...
View ArticleOnlyFans to Ban Explicit Content + What you can do about it NOW
OnlyFans banning explicit content By now you would have heard that OnlyFans is banning porn or to be more precise “sexually explicit content” as first reported by Bloomberg media on August 19th, 2021....
View ArticleCap D’Agde Review
Looking for some reviews on Cap D’Agde and this mysterious location? Ever been curious about Cap D’Agde? Stepping off the platform at the Agde train station we had no idea what to expect for the next 6...
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